Is honesty truly the best policy? VI
Hmm.
A little while ago, during the holidays, I was having this msn conversation with a person close within my social circle and she was telling about how she felt that she was just a stand-in whenever her friend felt bored.. like she was just a substitute point of amusement. Taking sympathy on her (and wondering what she had up her sleeve) , I decided that could only be too true because that friend of hers is truly a terrible person who has once wondered aloud why guys don't want her. Also, I smelled a rat somewhere.
Let's call this person whom I had the conversation with, Person A. Her friend shall be known as Person B.
Somewhere along this conversation, since during that point in time, I wasn't a very close pal with Person A, and we agreed to be good pals from that point in time. Well, it isn't much of a surprise that I soon realise that Person A and Person B don't have much of a relationship problem.. they laugh and joke all the time.. they have a good time together, just like normal friends. I can't say that I would be surprised if Person A decided that I, now was rather dispensible.
So at present, Person A and Person B seem to share a very good relationship, and I'm starting to wonder... was there ever a problem in the first place? Now Person A hardly ever speaks to me.. (I'm not complaining, it's just a matter of fact) and I find it amusing that this girl who once seemed so pitiful (but at the back of my mind, I know she's relatively manipulative) ever resorted to asking for my part in friendship.
I'm amused because why would anyone in their right mind want to be friends with someone who is *ahem* radically different in personality? Then the answer hit me: inside information.
I was involved with a small controversy during the start of the last holiday, and Person A is particularly reknowned infamous for being a leech for rumours and gossip. Person B is no better. Soon came the msn conversations prying into the controversial issue, with Person A pretending to be uninterested, but I'm no fool for such tricks, and much less amused that she would even try them on me.
I ssue at hand is that Person B and myself have never gotten along very well. It's very much worse now, and I'm already comfortably numb with the fact that I have no need to speak with her (My usual style is I don't say much if I have nothing of worth to say, but Person B's style is in reverse), although once in a while, when Person B does feel the need to put down her pride, she may ask me for assistance, which I have always been generous in dispensing, but somehow, it's always the matter of 'I give, She takes'.
Should I be less generous? I think not, but rather to be wary when dealing with such dangerous personalities whose desire is to utilise others to the point of expiry, and then those who have helped them achieved their ends can be carelessly tossed aside.
Folks, beware such individuals. Oh yeah, and I forgot one thing (which is on a light note):
This blog started on the 23rd of August, due to myself being so damn caught up with my school work, I even forgot my blog's Anniversary!!!
So Happy Belated 1st Anniversary, Marauding Tone Zones Of Crawldaddy!
Cheers,
Crawldaddy
PS: I would have like to have given a nice speech, which might have included 'I would like to thank Gawd, and Gawd, and Gawd and also my Ma and Pa and my troublesome older brudder....' but I'll just save it anyway.
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